Why we are different

Over the years, the course has been added to and refined in response to feedback, so now it's a world-beating confidence builder.

If you have spent a while looking around for help with self confidence or self esteem, it's my guess that you will have come across ALL sorts of stuff, all promising the same thing.

It is my experience that nothing worthwhile comes without effort.

BUT! It has to be the right sort of effort, and aimed in the right direction. You can pour blood, sweat and tears into many self esteem ideas and end up worse off than when you started.

Many of the self help books, online programs, websites, ebooks, therapists, counselors (the list is endless) make one fundamental mistake when it comes to self confidence and self esteem.

This is their mistake...

Avoid Self Help Hell

Good self confidence and self esteem comes from a decreased focus on the self (less self consciousness), and most of these self help approaches increase that focus. They literally lock you in Self Help Hell. The harder you try to improve your confidence, the worse you feel.

You will find that the free course, and our CD pack that I'll tell you about in a minute, work the opposite way, to help you get into the natural groove of the self confident person.

How can I be so confident about this? After all, surely if so many people are doing it that way, it must be right way to do things, right? Wrong.

Why Self Improvement is a Mine Field

Although you can rely on professionals in other areas, it doesn't really work like that in the psychology field.

In engineering, yes.

In IT, yes.

In office management, yes.

In these areas, what works is generally used. There's a bottom line - money.

But in psychology, things are different. The fact that it is so hard to test human experience makes agreement difficult. And everyone has their own opinion.

Not long ago, an extremely famous chat show host was heard to say:

Due to a recent report (released 2002) we now know that is completely untrue (as we always suspected).

Low self esteem is a problem, but it does not lead to nearly as much violence, drug taking, teenage pregnancy etc as was thought.

This is yet another example of bad ideas making peoples' lives more difficult instead of easier.

So this is what we recommend:

Outrageous claims are just that - outrageous.

So Who Am I to Say All This?

I work as a therapist, personal coach and trainer. My company, Uncommon Knowledge LLP, which I run with my fellow director, Mark Tyrrell, spreads cutting-edge information on psychology worldwide through our courses and websites.

We frequently work one-to-one with people who have:

o A major confidence crisis

o A lack of faith in themselves to take on new challenges

o Difficulty being assertive

o Fear of confrontation

o An extremely low opinion of themselves

o Difficulty in one area such as public speaking

o Social phobia

Mark Tyrrell, my co-director, and co-author of the Self Confidence Trainer CD pack has:

o Just completed a book on self esteem for Arrow publishing (US) called 'The Giant Within' (you can see it on Amazon).

o This year (2003) presented a seminar on 'How to Lift Low Self Esteem' to over 2000 health professionals in the UK. It's running again next year because it was so popular.

o Is also delivering a seminar this year (2003) on bullying.

And between us, we have trained thousands of people in our workshops, seminars and courses. Many of them to become professional coaches, counselors and therapists in their own right.

So, without patting ourselves on the back too much, we feel we know what we are doing! The feedback from the course and Trainer CD speaks for itself. I'll give you an example of that in a moment. But first, here's a little about our CD Program.

You May Be Thinking... Why Get the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack if you Have the Free Course?

It's a fair question, and I certainly don't want you to get the idea that the free course is useless on its own - it's not. However, here are 6 reasons why people everywhere buy the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack to boost their self-confidence.

1) Unique content -You will find essential audio tutorials on the CD's that simply cannot be conveyed in writing, particularly the hypnotic relaxation sessions (you can read why they are so important below.)

2) Get proven results - Some people are fed up with being under-confident and losing out in life, and they want to make sure they finally overcome this issue.

3) Saves time - Boost your self-confidence faster with the CD pack.

4) Learning style - Get the complete experience instead of just reading about it.

5) Reassuring support - Have a quick confidence booster available anytime you need it.

6) Urgency - If you need results fast - (the free course takes 6 weeks to complete.)

So what's in the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack that's not in the course?

There are several key confidence-building techniques that just can't be written down. This is what I mean...

1) The Most Important Factor in Self-Confidence

As you may have noticed in life, naturally confident people are good at emotional preparation for even the most stressful of situations, but the rest of us often need a little help to feel emotionally prepared for whatever happens. And nothing beats the hypnotic deep relaxation sessions you'll find as you listen to the CD Trainer for this.

These hypnotic deep, relaxing sessions will cause self-confidence to become an automatic habit for you, instead of always struggling to have it.

You see, emotional preparation is important because if your emotional state is wrong (too anxious, low energy or self-conscious) all your natural skills go out the window, along with any other preparation you've done. Why? Well, simply put, your brain doesn't work well when you're not relaxed. And if you're very anxious, it works very poorly indeed!

And that's why the Self-Confidence CD Trainer's hypnotic deep relaxation sessions is a "must have" to banish those under-confident thoughts that always pester you - you know the ones...

Because true self-confidence is an effortless habit, these types of thoughts vanish. And when that happens, you'll be able to direct your freed up energy towards achieving your goals and move farther and farther ahead in life!

2) Automatically Trigger Self Confidence in Difficult Situations

If you feel yourself slipping in a situation, it's vital to be able to recover quickly. The Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack uses a proven and tested approach to give you a "confidence trigger," which can boost your self-confidence almost instantly.

This is extremely useful, especially at first. After a while, you will use your trigger less and less as your self-confidence becomes more natural to you.

3) How to Relax - Whenever You Want

Being able to relax is a lot easier said than done. Yet it's the most important factor in controlling how you feel, and how you perform in life. Once you know how, it's easy to relax in virtually any situation. It's simply a case of knowing how.

After all, even bomb disposal experts can relax on the job!

How? Because they've learnt how! The Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack is perfect for teaching this because it's different from common school learning. Relaxation is an experience -- not facts or figures. And that's why The Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack is recommended for those who want to boost their self-confidence quickly and permanently.

4) How to Think Confidently

Also the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack will enable you to think like a confident person with perspective changers like:

Why not to compare yourself to others and what to do instead.

How people come across as confident even when they don't feel that way.

The 4 strongest techniques of confident people. Naturally confident people don't even think about confidence. Learn how they do it.

The biggest mistake most self-help programs make about self-confidence and self esteem.

And how you can avoid "Self-Help Hell."

5) A Wealth of Helpful Ideas and New Perspectives

- Why experiencing confusion when learning or doing something new can be a good sign that you're on the right path.
- How to overcome social phobias, once and for all, without drugs.
- How to take a threatening situation and simply turn it into a challenging situation.
- Know how to immediately weaken that negative inner voice that sets you up for failure right before a big event.
- How to use what children do to boost your self-confidence several times over.
- Know "these" certain things about yourself to feel at ease and look poised in virtually any situation.
- You'll know everything necessary to be as self-confident as you want.

And, with your copy of the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack, you won't have to worry about regressing back to experiencing a lack of self-confidence.

Newly Updated

In January 2002, we released the Second Edition of the Trainer. It contains more than the first edition, covers more areas, and includes special 'summary tracks'.

This is because people said that when they referred back to the Trainer, it was sometimes difficult to find the piece they were looking for. Now you can get the whole picture quickly.

'Trainer Tips' - Making the Most of Your Effort

The free course has also been expanded with 'Trainer Tips'.

Trainer Tips are instructions on how to use the CD Pack along with the course, so that you make the most of the synergistic effect.

(Don't worry though - you can still use the course on its own!)

The Confidence-Building Contents of the Trainer...
CD 1: 68 minutes, 48 seconds.
1	• Introduction - How The Trainer Builds Your Confidence And Self Esteem
2	• The TEST Model
	• How to assess your confidence readiness for any situation.
	• The four pillars of lasting self-confidence.
	• Why the past doesn't have to be a guide to the future.
3	• The TEST Model Summary - a quick and easy way to remind yourself of the main points of the preceding section.
4	• Learning confidence quickly
	• Avoiding 'unseen' pessimism and negativity.
5	• The 7 Key Skills of Naturally Confident People
6	• 7 Key Skills Summary
7	• How to think confidently. • 3 major confidence mistakes. •Avoiding the pitfalls of positive thinking.
8	• Confidence mistakes summary.
9	• How confident people view the world and how you can do it too - the keystone of confident thinking.
10	• Summary
11	• How to relax when you need to
	• Using visualization and mental rehearsal properly.
	• Hypnotic deep relaxation session to help you have more faith in yourself.
CD 2: 72 minutes, 27 seconds.
1	• A hypnotic session to give you a reliable trigger for a confidence boost when you need it most.
2	• Performance Patterning - training your brain to help you succeed, not trip up up!
3	• Performance Patterning Summary.
4	• Confidence for Stressful Events.
	• 3 Quick Tips to use if you feel under confident or anxious.
	• Effective emotional preparation for anxiety provoking situations.
	• A hypnotic session to boost your confidence for upcoming events.
5	• 7 Basic Human Needs for good self confidence, self esteem and happiness.
6	• Summary - getting the most out of your Self Confidence Trainer.

As you listen to the CD's you'll immediately notice the crystal-clear sound quality, (recorded by a BBC sound engineer!) and relax while the program smoothly leads you through a structured path to gently develop your self-confidence.

*** Important note - Please Read *** The Self Confidence Trainer is not your normal "excite 'em and leave 'em" self improvement program. I'm sure you have the experience of being really 'hyped' after an audio program or book, only to find that a week later nothing has changed? You'll soon discover that the Self Confidence Trainer delivers exactly what it promises - solid strategies for improving your self confidence and self esteem in virtually any situation. Plus experiential sessions to make you feel better immediately. It delivers on our promises by following a comprehensive, tried and tested process.

Thousands of people have bought the CD Trainer with the free course as a 'complete solution' to their confidence and self esteem problems. Their feedback is what makes my job worthwhile...

A Sample of What Customers Have Said After Buying the Self Confidence Trainer

"...a life changing experience..." Click on the box below for customer comments... "I have recommended your program to colleagues" Colin Gillett, Maidstone, UK colin@gillettc.freeserve.co.uk "The prompt for me embarking on this was a management management development program. During the course I identified that one of my action areas was self confidence." "I have found the combination of your tutorials, the CD & the general learning prompted by the management course as a life changing experience." "I have recommended your program to colleagues." "I will need to revisit the program to ensure the learning points are thoroughly absorbed but it been a revolution in my own perception of my experiences." "Although far from an unsuccessful person, I have found your program truly an inspiration & would have no hesitation in recommending it to others." "I was just lucky in sourcing such a program so quickly after identifying the need. Extremely sound work, keep up the program." Colin Gillett ------------------------------------------ "I have just completed your Self Confidence Course and received the CD Trainer weeks ago. I had very good results with the course and the CD's the course and the CD's." "I am more relaxed now in situations where before I was riddled with anxiety. I can enjoy the moment more, instead of anticipating what may happen, how I come across etc." "Now I do not get down on myself as much, and my self-confidence is not affected so easily. I am able to offer opinions, whereas before I wouldn't dare." "I have so many dreams and desires for my life. I feel much more confident that they are possible." "Thank you so much for the course and CD trainer. Do not hesitate to contact me about future programs. Colleen Edwards, Chattanooga, TN, USA ------------------------------------------ Kate S, Brighton, UK "Dear Roger, I'm so thrilled to have found out about Uncommon Knowledge. A friend lent me the CD's and I was blown away after the first sitting. Well, I have a long way to go but it feels so much more manageable when you know you're working towards a brighter future. Thank you! Kate ------------------------------------------ Simon Powell, Lancs, UK sinet2020@aol.com "Thanks! My self confidence has come on by leaps and bounds :-D" "I feel great when I go out now with friends. There was a point when all I would say was, 'Wow she looks nice', and leave it at that, but now I just go and chat or start a conversation." "My big fear was my Friends wedding, for which I am best man on Friday 3rd Aug 2001. I am now looking forward to doing my speech instead of worrying." "I now feel like a backbone of a group of people, helping out when everybody else seems shy. It is a wonderful feeling." "I also bought the confidence CD which too was a big help. The relaxation part of that CD is unbelievable, I don't think I have ever felt so relaxed and confident." "Thank you for all your help, it has turned my life around for the best." Yours Very Gratefully Simon Powell, Lancs, UK sinet2020@aol.com -------------------- Simon got back to us after the speech... "It [the speech] went a lot better than I could have hoped for. I just got up and did it with out giving myself chance to worry." "It was really quite nice being the center of attention and enjoying it even for a few minutes. Quite a few people congratulated me on it which was nice." "I have got another one to do next year. I am looking forward to it now." Simon Powell, Lancs, UK sinet2020@aol.com ------------------------------------------ Kelli Webster,Scottsdale, Arizona USA kelsol_2000@yahoo.com "I wanted to take the time to let you know how much your course and CD's have helped me." "From the very first tutorial, I saw results. The first HUGE result was learning that you CAN change the way you think of yourself and that many of my thoughts were these 'Myths' and not truths." "Learning that they were myths was so invigorating. That alone gave me hope and turned my thinking around - which had a domino effect on the rest." "I have not yet finished all of the tutorials, but the first few have been EXTREMELY helpful, and was the first thing I found to really make a difference in the area of confidence." "For years, I have read books, seen speakers, gone to psychiatrists and hypnotherapists - all turning my thinking to one component: "Why am I like this?" I couldn't figure out with all the knowledge I have why I couldn't become better and more secure." "I was stuck in it that's why! I was asking the wrong questions...instead of concentrating on what I can do to be better and different...more confident." "Thank you. . .thank you . . .thank you!!! I still have my moments when I still struggle - but instead of throwing my hands up and making it into a big ordeal like one of the styles mentioned on the Self Confidence Trainer CDs, I say 'OK I'm having a bad day, it'll pass.' " "You have given me some great tools to use on my journey of life. Thank you very much!!" Sincerely, Kelli Webster Scottsdale, Arizona USA kelsol_2000@yahoo.com ------------------------------------------ Theresa DelGiudice, New Jersey, USA cameo16011@aol.com "Thanks so much for your interest in my accomplishments!!!! I have the CD pack and I listen to it every chance I get." Well I'll tell you I feel like I have a personal trainer... ...that I can constantly refer to over and over again." "I am also going to use this for my children as a tool to help them in all their endeavors." "I thank you again this was a blessing." Theresa DelGiudice, New Jersey, USA cameo16011@aol.com ------------------------------------------ Charlotte O'Neill, Cambridge, UK o'neill.c@ucles.org.uk "Many thanks for the course. I have also bought and received your CD pack which I have just started listening to. It has made me aware about how much time I spend worrying unnecessarily. I enjoyed the simple exercises which are helping me to develop positive thinking habits. The course has also made me realise how empowering it is to be able to have faith in myself and abilities. Thank you very much! I would also like to stay in touch about course developments and other free courses. Kind regards Charlotte ------------------------------------------

We're currently giving 20% off the CD Pack to see if it convinces even more people to give the Trainer a try.

We know it delivers fantastic results and we want you to feel free to try it too.

Mark, my co-author, is generally against giving discounts (he thinks it devalues our products, (he has great belief in our products, as do I. I think I'm just a bit more realistic!) At the moment, he's still convinced.

This brings the price down to £27.96 (you can convert to dollars on the order page).

And we pay the shipping for you.

(If you're thinking "I bet he gives that offer to everyone", I don't. We sell plenty of Self-Confidence CD Trainer Packs at full price, on our courses and via mail order.)

The next few weeks can be a real turn around in your self-confidence levels. With the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack and the free course you'll 'cover all bases' for improved self-confidence.

Whether you are looking for general self-confidence, or confidence for particular situations such as social events, relationships, work, interviews, or public speaking...

By ordering the CD Pack now, you'll have it before your second tutorial.

The feeling that "whatever happens, I'll be OK", is a wonderful one. It makes your life expand and frees up extra energy.

I offer my clients who know about the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack a 90-day guarantee which means you can try the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack to see if it suits you. If not, simply send it back. I'd much rather you give it a try than miss out.
 

I promise that this is a risk-free way to try the Self Confidence CD Trainer Pack which is the most complete, lasting and effective way to improve your self-confidence. If it's not everything you thought it would be, then return it to us, for a full, no questions asked refund.

Go ahead and get the Self Confidence Trainer CD Pack today at 20% off, with no shipping (Making it only £27.96 - you can convert to dollars on the order page.)

To order now, please click the order button below and wait a moment while you are transferred to our secure ordering facility.
 

Purchase the Self Confidence Trainer from our US-based Store

 

Due to strong demand from our customers in the US and Canada, you can now buy directly from our Florida-based store. Simply click the 'Buy Now' button below and your order will be shipped to you by US mail. Should you wish to take advantage of the 90-day money-back guarantee, you can return the pack to the US office.

Currency conversion: The price of the CD with your 20%-off subscriber offer is £27.96 (pounds sterling). You will be able to convert to dollars on the payment page after you click the order button below.  
 

"By ordering, I understand that I benefit from your 90-day money-back guarantee. If the Trainer does not build my self confidence in the way I want, I can return it a full refund, no questions asked."

Click the button below to order now Please click the button above and wait a moment while you are transferred to our secure ordering facility. Order by fax 1-954-917-0063 Order by phone 1-888-744-0053  Problems ordering? Go ahead and invest in yourself and build your self confidence for good. Investing in yourself is one of the best things you can do with your money. And if not now, then when?

 

If you have any more questions about the Trainer.
Best Wishes,

Roger Elliott
Director, Uncommon Knowledge LLP.

P.S. A quick reminder - when you have the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack in your hands, you'll have everything you need - effective emotional preparation for stressful situations. A 'trigger' for self-confidence in difficult situations. The ability to relax when you need to. Hypnotic deep relaxation sessions. 7 strategies of naturally confident people. A realistic, optimistic and confident thinking style. Short summary tracks to remind you quickly of the most important points. A wealth of helpful ideas, new perspectives, tips, techniques and exercises to help you control anxiety, nerves or under-confidence in all types of everyday situations.

P.P.S. These CD's will quickly and permanently improve your self-confidence so you'll forget about past failures and face new situations with ease and poise. You can order the Self-Confidence CD Trainer Pack today and you can feel secure knowing you have a 90-day guarantee to try them risk free.